When it comes to dating and relationships, I live by the following code: 1) Friends’ and family’s ex’s are off limit. 2) Friend’s sisters or cousins are off limits 3) Other people’s spouse’s are off limit. My code is well publicized, everyone who knows me knows that I have stuck to this code religiously, even when it wasn’t easy doing so. I naturally have respect for anyone, you have to be a really bad person for me not to respect you and I personally believe that breaking would be disrespectful to the parties involved. With that said, I was shocked and hurt that a person I considered a close friend would accuse me of trying to mack on his spouse.
Vodacom gives prepaid customers free sixty minutes every time they recharge with R29 or more. I usually spend that sixty minutes on the same five people because 1) I don’t have a girlfriend, 2) I lost most of my contacts when my phone broke down two months ago and 3) I no longer feel like speaking to half of the people on my contact lists because of the poor way they handled my mental breakdown last. My friend’s spouse just so happens to be one of the remaining few that I have telephonic conversations with and I so happened to call her one day when I was bored at work, I wish I hadn’t done that. I am now being accused of having an affair or trying to have an affair with my friend’s wife. By my friend. That’s like the most fuxed the fux up thing ever and I honestly do not know what to make of that situation. I hung up the phone when I was called in the middle of the night over this BS. I honestly don’t know how to handle this.